Own path of Life!

The time to understand your own self is never right or wrong! Even if you try your level best to understand your own self, you never cease to get surprised or shocked!The things that go about in a brain are unimaginable.  

In life, you will come across many people who try to pull you down. Worst thing about life is to judge yourself; others will judge you off n on and you can’t stop everyone from doing so. But, you can stop yourself to over think any situation.

Everyone has secrets they want to take to their graves; however much everyone claims to have open lives or open minds.Someone’s life seems very rosy and glossy from afar but no one realizes that nothing is perfect and everyone’s idea of happiness is different.

Life’s rules are not made by society; everyone has a right to choose their own path, however slow or fast!

 

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Searching for the unknown!

I always tell myself that I will try and not be in the past and NOT think of the future… I will live in the present. But it so happens that I always end up thinking and pondering of matters from my past, worrying and fretting about what is to happen in the future, be it near or far, and I always feel like I am on  a search. I don’t understand what I am searching for? Sometimes or most of the time I feel I am searching for the right companion, that spark to feel alive in someone’s arms, the work that is my passion that will give me the drive to strive every day of my life.

My head is filled with all kinds of random thoughts.  I know not what I think; I know not what not to think, I just think blankly into a blank space trying to understand what I am truly looking for!

Modesty at it’s Utmost Glory!

Hello everyone,

After two years of pretending to study my way through the one thing I like and intend to stick by, my writing produced an amazing result which I am so modestly sharing with everyone on my Blog.

I am still not sure where I am headed in life but wherever I am going I intend to enjoy my journey and I know I’ll be fine. I like taking my life each day as it comes and I feel until now I have been blessed and hopefully it will carry on in this magnanimous manner.

God Bless.

Live and Let live, Cheers!

Take care,

Ay.

Some random blabbers!

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There are days I think and think and there are days my mind draws a blank. I don’t know which phase of life I am in just now; but the realization that I live my life in phases has dawned upon me since a long time now. I chose to be happy every step I take in my life. There are times I am going to trip and fall and there are days I may even fall into a huge pit and struggle to come up but I thank God each day for all that he’s given me and hope that he’ll keep his hand on my head forever.

I know not where I am heading in life; I chose not to think too much about it as I don’t feel it’s not meant to be thought about now. I try not thinking of the emptiness in my life which needs to be filled. There are instances from my past I do feel if done differently would have made life simple. But then in the class of life, simple is mostly made to sit next to boring. Our minds and hearts love to play games with us, makes us sit and make tatters of all the small incidents in life, which in the first place didn’t even need the attention they were showered with!

Life is so beautiful, I see people striving to have a normal everyday life and when I have the best of everything I crave more freedom. Is it wrong to want to have some freedom that every individual needs?  As I recently told a friend, “Give space and take space” is one of my new mantras in life. We may want a lot of things in life but we don’t get them exactly the way we want them, there are a few things in life we need to have patience for. I have been told that patience is known to pay and sometimes I have seen it happen too.

 We’ll have to wait and see… until then, I’ll get back to random things and living my happy life. As I always say, enjoy the journey before you reach your destination. Cheers!

 

What strategies will you employ to sustain the reader’s attention till the end?

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Any form of writing needs to hold a key interest to the reader or readers it caters to! The starting and ending are very important factors in any piece of writing. The writer needs to understand how and what the readers will want to read but write according to his/her way of thinking. The package can be exactly what the writer wants and feels the readers would appreciate but needs to be attractively packaged to attract attention and keep the hold on their attention till the piece is finished. Every piece written is first judged by its cover, even though the popular phrase states: ‘Never judge a book by its cover’; more or less it always is! Sad but true, nevertheless, every writer must know how to entice its readers mind and cast a spell by his/her wand, which metaphorically can be stated as the pen or typing medium in this new day and age. Usage of metaphors helps bring the sparkle to the reader’s eyes and the colour on their faces if used in the correct amount.

Every piece in fiction needs to have mystery and it always get the readers to stay that extra minute, read a line or two more, and finally ending with reading the whole passage or book, until the conclusion holds the key to their curiosity. Use of flash black sequences off and on and then returning to the present situation or throwing a bit of light to the future thoughts of the characters also act as an element of surprise which add glitter to your writing in the most promising ways.

In any form of writing one must try and make sure that they have the reader involved, this can mean for one to write about situations which most people relate to in their day to day lives. Humour plays an important role as much as an emotional touch would do. Different kinds of emotional tactics can be used and implied in one’s writing to ensure even more reader involvement. Some interesting examples can be mentioned or quoted, use of saying and quotes by various other writers can be used to relate with some niche of readers. Ironical situations, drama and tragedy also can be implemented to get different kinds of reactions from different sets of readers. Some writers have the knack to get to their readers on a psychological level, which moreover implies that they have a way to get to the heart, mind and soul of a reader. They use their writing to connect with their readers in such a way that the reader feels the writer is their soul mate; they are like twins separated at birth. However, ironically twins usually don’t always possess the same behavioural patterns but can relate to each other on many different levels. Some or most writers use ‘Fantasy’ in their form of writing, because every individual likes to get away from reality and free themselves from the monotony of day to day lifestyle. They like to forget about their worries and steer their own dream vehicle and travel into the unknown to know about things which can only exist in dreams and seldom in reality.

What one needs to remember is to be on the same thinking level as their readers or have the ability to change the view of the reader and make them think what you feel is truly the ultimate truth!

Travel is essential for a writer

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Travel is as essential for most writers as breathing is for every living being to continue existing in this world. Traveling opens new avenues to the writer’s thought process. It enhances ideas and helps feed the mind with newer and better drawn pictures to relate with and put words on paper. Writers are always encouraged to exhilarate their curiosity; which in-turn yields into better literature.

Have you often wondered about how a person would feel who doesn’t have the means to travel to any major location and is restricted to an area which is only in and around his living environment? The person would like to travel, but sometimes he/she doesn’t have the choice or opportunity to do so!

Writing thrives on the surroundings around you, it envelopes ‘food for thought’ from the places you travel, the people you meet, the people you don’t meet-yet observe from a distance, the climates you visit, the culture you absorb, the interesting conversations you have with complete strangers feeling you know them from another lifetime, making new relationships as you travel from one place to another. Sometimes you go to the same place over and over again, discovering a part you hadn’t noticed or seemed to have ignored in the bliss of being amongst beauty. Some people even make a living and have a ball of a time writing travelogues.

Writing is a passion every writer unravels as they enjoy every bit of their journey as much as the thrill of reaching their destination. Writing is an art which can come naturally to many but can be cultivated amongst all. Interest is the key factor to everything in life along with work satisfaction. Reading, visiting new places, meeting new people, or interacting with your known clan also enables us to write into deeper depth of the way every being thinks and functions.

Every place has various areas a writer can dig deep into; such as, the psychology of the people living in that area, its diverse culture, and the rituals they perform, food style, etc. The food of every place also gives you a sense of divine enlightenment, the different tastes play with your senses, just like a passionate artist’s fingers would string on a new instrument given freely to explore. Some writers don’t have the opportunity to actually travel to different places but they make sure they do their research or watch documentaries about the places they would like to visit; traveling in any form gives one the freedom to express their thoughts, views and emotions in every possible spark they can display.

Everyone needs a break from their normal day to day routine life. Traveling gives the writer that light you see at the end of the tunnel, the freedom to open their mind to a different environment, express themselves in different volumes, be a part of the place and realize that there is a whole new kind of person right within you who goes unnoticed and is mostly shunned. Every sphere of our being is challenged when we go out of our comfort zone and that itself helps us build a stronger sphere around us and ironically also open up to things we never thought were possible to achieve. Peace of mind and sound sleep also play an important role in a writer’s life, some people thrive on the disturbances in their lives to portray them and bring out emotions on a tray of thrill.

Travel & writing are known to be quite addictive; as a popular advert states,” Once you pop, you can’t stop!”

Language changes with the introduction of new means of communication

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Language has always been more or less a mode of communication for all. Different languages have their own words that the speaker or writer plays with. English being the neutral language and having been christened as the internationally known and spread language is used to suit the liking of many of us. We have dressed the English language in so many different costumes, as to say, that if asked would exclaim to be left alone!

With the advent of Internet and Cellular services the world sparkled in colours of joys we knew only to exist in our dreams. Leaving out a minority of the old school thinkers, the rest see more advantages than disadvantages in the usage of these new-age inventions.Language changes while people talk, write letters via emails or snail mail, using the short message service better known as sms, usage of  chatting services like blackberry messenger ( Bbm), Whatsapp messenger, chat-on messenger ( Samsung), Viber, etc. Also with social media platforms being an important part of our lives, such as Facebook, people correspond through it and also use its chatting service to communicate with their friends, family, acquaintances, also to make new friends world over. Language has been altered to suit our needs completely. Everyone around use short forms and have come up with a form of language to communicate with their circles of friends. Sms services only allow certain amount of characters to be used and that pushed people initially to start using short forms to get their message through to the other side. For example: G2g: got to go, Ttyl/s: talk to you later/soon, etc. Instead of saying good morning or good night people started using short forms and wrote ‘Gm/Gn’ instead, instead of saying take care, the term ‘tc’ is used moreover. Other such short forms such as DND (do not disturb) have been in the offing since long. Chatting services have their own set of short forms that evolved, such as: Lol: Laughing out loud, ROTFL: Rolling on the floor laughing, XoXo: Hugs and kisses. Usage of symbols also came into existence as well, such as: [ :) - a smile ], [ :D - a grin ], [ ;) – a wink ], [ :P – tongue sticking out].  There are very many other smiley faces which have been integrated into their own software by the creators to express different kinds of emotions.

There are many modes of communication these days that have brought different changes in our language patterns. As in India, Hindi is the second language known popularly amongst everyone, some states frown upon it and want only to use their own state driven language, but have no issues while speaking in broken English dialect! Amazingly, English has been adopted as our all mighty language mother by all with pride in their hearts. As we all know India has a cosmopolitan population, which has its own set of languages and as we have all been born with the freedom of speech, we yield to misuse it as we may. We tend to bend the language to suit our own craving and the need to create. A new form of language better known as ‘Hinglish’ came into existence and has been used since sometime. Any language for that matter was created to get a particular message through from one individual to another or a group of people. So if the purpose of communication is solved, the idea of using any language is fulfilled commendably. Opinions vary and people have a mind of their own; nowadays every mind has its own language too!

We found Choco ! Pray for it’s survival !

Yesterday evening, while my mom and I started for our usual evening walk down our drive way, we spotted a small bird chick toppled over on the side; instinctively I picked it up and called my father who in turn agreed to bring it home. We searched all the holes in our revetment of our house but we only found one very old nest which was abandoned as well. So we brought the chick home and then pa told us that it’s a Myna. We fed it some rice first, pa  fed it. Then we put a search on Google and found out what we can give the baby, so my sister and I got up at 6am and my sis fed it boiled mashed egg with a little bit of oatmeal. It eats very little at regular intervals. We then kept it on our lawn in the sun for sometime to see if any other myna would come looking for it. Two of them came close by and one pecked at the poor little thing. I was sitting nearby and shooed the bird off and got the baby bird inside and kept it in it’s cardboard box…The box says Dark fantasy choco filling, so therefore I decided to name the bird, ‘choco’, for my own convenience, not that the myna chick is going to respond by the given name.

We don’t know what we’ll need to do or how and what’s to happen to it but we’re hoping that it gets it’s strength and wants to fly soon. Let’s see…This is the second day(sort off) at our home with Choco…Praying for it’s best!

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Eat,Pray,Love…

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Simple pleasures in life are the small rain drops in the happiness shower of our lives! Our lives revolve around things that bring happiness to our mind,heart and soul. Then why is it that we run after people or things we THINK that hold the eternal power to our happiness? Guess, to understand the human mind and heart is quite a complex task! We need to chose and deal with situations as they come! Rely on our gut instincts and hope to GOD that these feelings don’t screw us over!  

 

So Eat well but try to eat RIGHT as much as possible, Enjoy every morsel and you’ll be in heaven every single time. 

Pray as much as you can and ONLY how much your heart tells you to do so, not because you have to, ONLY because you chose to do so !

And Love with a open heart and TRY to NOT expect anything in return, though asking anyone to do so is just being naive, as every heart expects, Let us say, Don’t try to expect a LOT !

Live and Let live…One life, it’s too short and unpredictable, ANYTHING can happen ANY TIME ! So make the most of it and let your life roll the way you want it to; and  dance to the tune you want to move your feet with! 

Just try to  be happy and achieve as much peace of mind as you can!