Have you ever realized that human nature is a glutton for punishment? Everything is going on smoothly and suddenly you feel life is too simple, too boring, too ordinary…Right then you make your life complicated for the mere thrill of it. It’s like you’re sitting in front of a video game and you’re driving a car, you can see that you’re going to hit a rock or a stone or another car, but that doesn’t bother you, you still carry on… because you feel it’s just a game, you can start over; in life, it’s not like that. We cannot undo our actions by starting over always. It’s like karma is following you with a cane in its hand. You do something wrong sooner or later it will lash out at you.
Mistakes in life should be taken as experiences as I keep repeating over and over again to myself and to whoever has the patience to listen or read what I write. Some people make mistakes on purpose through their subconscious. They later realize that they didn’t mean to do this but have wanted to because according to their minds they lead a very boring life which looks rosy to others but in reality sucks for them. A mistake made once is a mistake and can be taken as an experience but a mistake done over and over again is just an excuse. A mistake done intentionally or by mistake has its consequences. If you’re in the middle of it all, you might as well be brave enough to face the fat woman sing when the time comes.
Well whatever said and done I feel life teaches us the lessons we need to learn to move on the proper course in our lives. It is how we look at life that matters. If we sit and brood over what’s happened we can only make ourselves more miserable than we already feel. Face the issues head on if and when need be and live life with an open mind and an open heart. Make amends and rethink your decisions in life. Always follow your gut and have the guts to live and let live. Cheers!
Hey, Its been sometime since I’ve written here and I feel that I need to do more but something or the other keeps me from writing all that I think of! I have a lot of thoughts, mostly good ones, some of loneliness, some where I just want to be by myself and totally at peace with myself.
I keep coming back to the same thought in life. What are we here to achieve? Isn’t it happiness? Doesn’t peace of mind also lead to happiness? To find happiness in the most weirdest and saddest situations in life?
Even the people who have nothing in life have their own definition of happiness. It all depends on how we look at life and what defines happiness for us.
For me happiness is spending time with myself, with my family and friends. Eating good food brings me happiness. Reading and watching movies makes me happy. Listening to music, laughter or chattering of excited teenagers. Hearing small day to day miracles and incidents makes me happy.
Have you asked yourself what makes you happy and you’re grateful for? So ask yourself what makes you happy when you’re all down and out or generally?!
I am sure you are if you think of all the good things in life. Remember like attracts like. So be grateful for the life you have and the more you’re grateful the better your life will get! Trust me! Keep smiling 😊 and Be Happy. Cheers! 👍🏻
Life as you know is quite unpredictable. Live each moment with the zeal to make yourself and everyone around happy. We should not take our present for granted as we reminisce about the past or dream expectantly about our future. Sometimes today is all we have; so live like there’s no tomorrow!
Hey all, you must think what kind of topic is this now. Well it’s the type where even though I belong to an endangered species community, I will would advice people to be pro protection. Children are the cutest, sweetest and most adorable creatures, or so I have been told. They sure can be all that, but when the tantrums roll, it’s trumpeting gone wild. Everyone wants their name to go forward, a little mini themselves or like their partners. BUT until you are a 10001 and 10001 and 10001 percent sure you can handle the ups and downs of emotions please reconsider having any little yous. Phew! God help me if and when I do decide I want to mother a child or two in the future. Being a parent is one of the most challenging jobs in this whole universe. You shoulder the responsibility to mold a child to it’s best capabilities, but in the bargain you lose a lot and yes, achieve maternal or paternal bliss as well! As a by-standing observer I can only say one thing…Just be sure before you do anything you won’t regret later on in life. Cheers!
DISCLAIMER: THIS IS ONLY MY OBSERVATION AND OPINION. I DID NOT INTEND OR MEAN TO HURT ANYONE’S FEELINGS IN THE BARGAIN. IF YOU DISAGREE PLEASE JUST TREAT IT AS GARBAGE AND MOVE ON BUT PLEASE DON’T UNFOLLOW MY BLOG! *WINK WINK*
The term ‘cutting of the cord’ can be explained as when a new born child and the mother are separated from each other literally by cutting the cord which was helping feed and keep the baby alive in the womb. This simple yet effective procedure is needed as now the baby will be able to eat and breathe on its own even though it will be relying on the mother for various other reasons.
Now comes the complicated explanation, cutting the cord can also be applied in numerous ways.
- When an individual is grown up and needs to take responsibility.
- When an individual gets married and has his or her family to take care of.
- When an individual has his or her own children and they in turn will understand this term in due course of time.
There are many instances when children want to explore and do things on their own but parents expect them to learn from the mistakes they have made already so they prompt them again and again and try to cushion their children’s lives, not understanding that if one doesn’t make their own mistakes they never learn what is or what isn’t to be done. Awareness is one thing but over caution can be injurious to one’s confidence level.
Most people have control issues in life which in turn can also be related to the cutting of the cord term. Everyone has a different way of working and most people can do wonders with their ways. Some take a little longer to do the work and some are faster, none the less each one should have the freedom to do their work as they please because if they are given the liberty to do so, they in turn will bring out results with flying colours and also enjoy each and every moment of the task assigned or taken over.
Elders or people responsible for other individuals need to understand when it time to, as I have repeated innumerous times in this article, cut the cord. They should not feel that if they do so, they will lose control. Control is something everyone wants a part of; it gives you a feeling of power, but with great power comes greater responsibility.
Every person has a right to choose the path they want in their life and learn and experience life to the hilt. Everyone has a right to their opinion and a good argument should always be encouraged.
Let’s hope that most people understand that trying to control other people’s lives is not something they should be proud of. Letting people live their lives, being happy and enjoying it to the fullest that matters. One life and anything is possible is what I’ve come to understand.
Cut the cord from other people’s control issues and always be safe and strong!
Hey there, have you all ever wondered how it feels when you get small joys in life and they give you the best feeling in this world?
A simple phone call, a birthday wish, a small gift from someone who you didn’t expect and top this all blessings from everyone.
We get the best feeling in the world when we don’t expect and receive anything. The surprise element is the best joy in this world.
On the occasion of me starting a fresh chapter in my diary of life, I thank everyone for the happiness they have sent my way in any form possible. I’m grateful and thankful for all the love.
Warm regards and lots of love to all,
A bright new year to you all. A lot has happened and yet I am feeling nothing different. This year seems to be as most years go by and even though I have everything in my life I still seem to be missing a link. I just can’t understand how one missing link can make such an impact in one’s life. We come in life alone and we know we go alone, yet we yearn attachment. I mostly like to be an independent carefree person. Still as we are all social animals we crave company in every form possible. Socially connected to everyone doesn’t make us feel enlightenment, it gives us a certain sense of acceptance but leaves us craving and wanting more. Do you ever get the feeling of being alone in a crowd?
Hopefully I will overcome such mixed feelings this year around and get back on track with a more optimistic and healthier approach to life!
Cheers to you all…
May you all get what you wish for and much much more!