It’s been sometime I have written and I was just not able to write maybe because I didn’t want to feel or think anymore. I just wanted to live life as it came which I did and continuing to do so even now.
Life is a constant teacher, It gives us such hidden meanings out of the most random things. The other day I told a friend, ‘ Life is short but it can turn out to be very long if you’re unhappy!’- this is so true. I mean have you thought about this? It’s already February 8th today and the year 2016 went off like a breeze and now 2017 seems to be waltzing by as well. I am the grateful kind and I am very happy for what I have in life, but yes there are many things I would want to include in my life ( that story is for another post, some other lifetime maybe.wink wink ) If a person is not happy, they feel life is dragging and no fun at all and they come up with the line –I am bored with my life.
Why would you get bored? There are so many things that can keep one busy! Though I have realised that people who don’t like to read or watch stuff tend to get bored easily. There is so much information out there for us to grasp, even two lifetimes won’t be enough. Knowledge is non-stop and every other moment you realise you don’t know what is right and what is wrong!
The constant argument I have with my father is that there isn’t just one right and one wrong in life. There can be two rights too. It’s only a difference of opinion. It can’t be my way or the highway. My father is the one who always says one should never say ‘ I know!’ because that in itself shows you don’t want to learn more.
Now, for whoever believes in rebirth. Rebirth is a concept to relearn what we couldn’t in our previous lives, it’s like a repetitive class but without the previous knowledge. It’s a sick way of saying, come one get this right but you won’t remember what you did wrong the last time! Well however it is, IF and when you get the hang of this game called life, you progress to the next level and that takes a lot of practice my friend, so I have been told repeatedly, Practice makes perfect!
About life’s endless decisions, one has to make their own choices, everyone will give their advice and support but we come into this life alone, we’re surrounded by people but when we’re going through our share of troubles only we can help ourselves, and we go alone leaving behind the ones who grieve losing us. ( If we are lucky!)
My constant Mantra in life among some other is to ‘Be happy’ however else we feel. We should be happy 85 % of our lives, 15 percent can be given to sadness but we shouldn’t dwell upon it too much. Feel sad but then move on, that is what life is, teaching us to pick up the pieces and charge ahead. Take life by it’s horns and ride it badass!