Lots of stuff has been on my mind lately and my life schedule has gone haywire. Still I am happy with my life, me thinks at least 80% is good as it should be, would like to do something about maybe another 10-15 % more, other than that one can’t be perfect. Anyhow, at times in life you like people & they don’t like you or aren’t really interested besides just being nice to you (Thank god for the nice ones), other than that I have realized that there are people who like me, (yes! I am likeable! ) I am genuinely friendly and as nice as I can be too. That being the circle of life or life interests! Confidence levels waver a lot during such occurring in life. When someone likes you, you’re like jumping up and down in your mind even if you don’t like them back, BUT if you like someone and it isn’t reciprocated back you feel like your head and body has been swallowed by an Anaconda. Phew! Such is the weirdness in emotional upheavals.
Emotionally it gets so complicated at times even if we don’t want it to be so! A girl has to wait for a guy to give her attention, and IF a girl is strong enough to approach a guy, it’s either taken in an ‘uhhh! She’s kind of too upfront or needy outlook!’ or if the guy is genuinely interested, the girl’s hit jackpot!
We say we are progressing but where is the progress? We still think the old ways. We still believe that Men are supposed to make the moves, men are supposed to do the supposed chasing, coz women like to play hard to get; I think it’s the Men who love to play the games! Why do we all love to play games? Yes, I get it that it’s the spice of life, little mystery and little excitement! Yet, another weird scenario, most people are comfortable if the person they are trying to know is from the same city as them, coz most people don’t have time, or so they say! To multi-task everything, they don’t have the patience to get to know someone from a different city or country. In this Era of technology when we’re always connected, the excuse of not being able to keep in touch is quite useless.
I guess it all boils down to the Interest levels of people, also luck does play an important role in life, and don’t ask how or why. Because there are days I feel the luckiest thing on earth and days I feel so shitty why ccan’tget a little bit of luck my way.
IT’S ALL IN YOUR OWN MIND& YOUR OWN HANDS!
You have to program yourself to feel confident, feel alive, feel and be healthy & live life positively!
Cheers to learning more in life and taking each step towards feeling more confident and happy with your life! Things go wrong in life to learn from them, don’t look at them as mistakes, look at them as experiences and you’ll always learn as you go along the way. If someone doesn’t like you – it’s their loss, if something doesn’t happen that you really wanted -something better is in store for you, if you’ve been in the dumps- There is always today to cheer up and look up and feel the highs in life!
So it’s all up to us, to feel shitty about ourselves or to look towards a better today and much brighter tomorrow in a cheerful and positive way!