Do you Hibernate ?!

Bear in Cave

Has it ever occurred to you that our mind needs a hibernation period to recuperate? Well, It’s known that the mind doesn’t stop thinking even when it’s asleep but it is in this rest phase and for that one needs to respect that and give the mind the rest it deserves.

People feel that a person who sleeps more is depressed, maybe it is true but sometimes I have noticed that depressed people seldom sleep. I for one LOVE my sleep. I am not saying I don’t like to be adventurous or live my life, BUT I feel every person should get their share of sleep cause it calms you down. Therefore the saying, ‘Sleep it off ‘which means to stop the bad effects of having too much of something by sleeping for as long as it takes to end those effects.

Lots of people like to over exert themselves to distract themselves into not thinking. I feel sleep is the best remedy ever, it really helps you unwind and relax.

You go into this wonderland where there is nothing you worry about and everything is how it should be, Yes…That is why they call it the dream world.

Dreams are different from reality, but that doesn’t mean we have to stop living our lives and be overly practical about everything. In life one can’t be too dreamy or too practical, there has to be a balance and that is VERY difficult to achieve. I said difficult and not impossible. Most people live their whole lives and still they are not able to achieve what they truly desire, but life is a chase.

That is what keeps us going. The thrill of the chase.

We can never stop wanting something. It’s always something or the other. I am not saying we are not grateful for what we have, but we want more so that we can be grateful for that as well!

Ah! The ironies of life. Things we want and the things we seldom achieve. The things we wanted and got, we lose their value and the things we didn’t want and now are not getting are things we run after. Yikes! Did I confuse you or am I confused myself ? Naaah! Read it once again, I am sure you’ll get it.

Just like your computer your brain needs a restart after it’s being hibernating for quite some time. Life gives us many opportunities to such restarts, all we have to do is realise where they are and press that button right on time.

So on that note I would say, hibernate your mind off and on but then comes a time that hairy ball needs to be unplugged, you got to move your lazy posterior and face life like a bear and roar it alive!

Feeling of Confusion or happiness?


The feeling of butterflies in your stomach may not be common to all but we have felt it sometime or the other in life. I tend to get them when I am excited, happy, nervous or majorly anxious about something. The feeling is a mix which confuses you even more.

Most of us feel it when you like or have a crush on someone, when that person is around or if they person corresponds with you. If you are anxious to know if the person likes you or not. The feels appears when you want something badly and it’s the idea you working on how to get it that keeps you on the edge of your seat.

The excitement of the chase, the not knowing what, when or how?!  The curiosity to the conclusion of the woe-is-me tale.  Why are we so confused in life that we need some drama in it to make it more interesting. Why can’t a simple life make us satisfied? I guess we’re not built that way.

The chase is what we are after! The thrill of the chase! Sometime we are unaware of things around us and sometimes the people around us are unaware of how we feel about them. Life loves throwing puzzles  our way. We just need to know how to unravel them without any major disturbances. Guess the all in all is to look at life with a pinch of salt, just the right amount to bring flavour into it and keep us going!


Speed breakers 

People who live in India will be more aware of the word speed breaker than anyone else. You’ll find them at every few minutes on some roads. 

In life, such speed breakers come in the guise of issues, problems but it’s how you handle the situation, to slow down to avoid accidents is what matters. 

When everything looks and seems rosy, life seems a bright place to live in and then suddenly a few difference of opinions make you wonder if you really want this or not! 

Is too much honesty also bad? Should somethings be kept to ourselves?  Interesting questions to think about. 

There is always something we never tell or even admit to ourselves and yes somethings should to go to your grave with you! 

Why are people so scared of change? I for one don’t want anyone to change but even a little bit of change to their lifestyle and people tend to panic. I would infanct  like a change at given intervals, that’s my idea of the speed after a speed breaker in life. 

Anyhow each one to their own but yes, life is full of speed breakers for sure! Mostly for our safety, to keep us sane and not make us go mad with excitement or worry and end up in a ditch. 

Think about it, I know I am! 😜 


System overload! 

Have you every thought, we go about with our lives and then suddenly one day we feel what are we doing with our lives?! Is this what we thought we’d be doing? Is this it? Confusion along with presumptions and assumptions,can really be the mother of all f*** up’s in life. The moment we start judging our every move we really mess up our lives. 

The constant reminder that is needed to take life as it comes and to go with the flow flies right out the window when confusion and assumptions take their stand in your heart and mind. 

Confidence is a trickster as well, you know you have it but it goes and hides under the table right when you need it the most.

Drama is needed in life to make it interesting but why can’t some things be plain and simple, when people claim they’ll be honest how come suddenly there are hidden games and tricks up their sleeves.Maybe  it’s not intentional but even things done without realisation hurts just as much as doing them with an intention. 

Well as the saying goes, what doesn’t kill you- makes you stronger. So here’s to being stronger and taking life as it comes with a pinch of salt, also hoping the lemon and tequila is on its way to your table. Cheers! 

Let life surprise you!

fc9aa06a0b67e26952e19e05e73a6acbPatience is the key,
I tell myself and have been told repeatedly,
Time, place and reason behind everything,
I go by this simple life philosophy.

It’s not an easy task to wait,
To know when to do or when to say what,
Sometimes you just want to scream,
Not behave in the way it’s meant to be,
Still overall I ask for guidance and help,
Also in every way I am thankful and show gratitude.
Waiting for life to surprise me again,
I know I deserve someone who is made just for me,
Having said that I conclude,
I am lucky to have a life,
That has taught me to be so positive.

That’s what She said! (A love letter that I wrote for the games evening yesterday.Luckily I won that round!)

My dearest and sweetie pie! I miss you a lot! Every minute I spent with you comes to mind with every song that plays on the radio! I love the way you sent me digital kisses even though I couldn’t feel them they hit the spot on my heart. I can’t tell how much I feel your emptiness. I love you and wish I could have gotten more time to get to be with you.

You are my monkey!!!  You are my song to the deepest tunes played on the piano of my heart. I feel you should be happy wherever or whoever you are with. Wish you the best with or without me! I will always love you. If you are meant to be with me then I will be with you! Destiny and Karma have played their dirtiest games. Let’s see who wins at the game of love! Cheers to life! Lots of kisses and hugs. Mwaah! Lots & lots of happiness! I’m repeating myself but that’s how much I feel for you.

Those days will be etched in my book of life. Cheers to spending more. Love you Lots, Ay. <3


Change is always the new black!


In life just when you think you have figured out the key to happiness, life throws you a confusing curve ball and you gotto get down to start figuring life and it’s loopholes again. The key to this is to let yourself be confused for a wee bit and then get back on the horse that’s saddled up and ready to go where you lead it to.

Life needs us to keep facing new areas in life. Everything isn’t exactly how we imagine it to be. If too much goes our way, we either get bored or we panic. So best is to get happiness in small doses, just about enough of which we can handle.  We tend to get extra scared when we get too happy as well. We feel something will go wrong and invariably it does too coz we will it to go wrong.

Doubts make us this way. Doubts drain us of our positivity. We need to stay positive and reach out to ourselves.

We need to know that change is good for us. In life we should know how to restart and start fresh. Face the same music but dance a different step to the same tune.

Life needs to be so that we feel sadness to understand the true meaning of happiness. Start yet again and accomplish which  you know you have it in you to do so.

Give it your best shot and don’t ever think that life is unfair. Life gives everyone  a chance. Sometimes some get  less and some get more!

The only thing that is constant in life is change. Live and Let Live…We all get what is coming for us!

Change your attitude and change your life. :) Change is the Key word here! :) Embrace it!

The thrill of the chase!

Have you heard the line from a Batman movie where the joker says that I am like the Dog that loves chasing cars, but I have no clue what I would do with it once I actually catch it ?!  This is how human reactions are too most times. We love the whole idea of the chase, we want to bark, flap our ears, and go all ga ga over the person we’re wanting to be with, then as the person seems to be falling for our charm, we look at another car that’s going somewhere else and our attention diverts or we stop and wonder, what if I catch up and I don’t want to be near that car?


The whole idea of perfection that we run after is quite vague. I for one look for chemistry and attraction, in every form. People feel I look for perfection, but it’s not correct. I know what I will do when I chase the car I really want to be near or at least I think I have come to a level now that I won’t panic and run away in the opposite direction. Fingers and toes crossed!

Anyhow everyone likes to play hard to get but I feel it is better to be quite open and avoid playing games with people around you. Chase all you want but then don’t desert something because suddenly your panic button starts beeping and you want to run from here to Timbuktu. Well, I  guess we learn a lot of lessons from life but I for one feel it gets easier from one lesson to the other, but it hurts even more. These are the things that make you tougher and make you look at life as a bigger picture.


Times like these, we independant people, more-so need to suck in those 6 shots, Hug ourselves and hibernate for a good 2 weeks of awesome sleep.

Kudos to such confusing times in life that make us the people we are!

Hick Hick Hurray!

Love yourself!

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As the Parsi year comes to an end I try to think if I have any major regrets, what I should try to accomplish in the new year and how I should be more careful trusting people.

Life has risks, you have to take them at times can’t avoid them as such at all given times. But if any risk backfires on me I know I am woman enough to face the consequences. I shall be very scared or nervous but come what may I will handle it.

Everytime I try to make sure people around me are happy and content, there is only one person who pays the brunt of it and that is me. Life teaches us weird lessons, some of them tell to be selfish and not trust too easily. Some tell us there are good people in this world and it’s not that bad as it looks.

This is a bad-bad world, you got to have the guts to face life at it’s best and at it’s worst. Family will always stick by you come what may. Friends who are like family do the same.

Life decisions need to be made when you’re calm and at peace with yourself. Excitement also helps but sometimes when you think everything is going pretty smooth, you fall in a ditch or someone pushes you there. You gotto get up, clean yourself up and get moving with your life.

Always remember you are a very special person, never let anyone make you feel otherwise. Love yourself first and the world will love you! Treat yourself with respect and the world will respect you.

People only realise the value of something until they have lost it. So make yourself so valuable that even the person who has you will think 10 times before losing you.

Take each lesson in life as an experience and not a regret. Some people come into your life for a season and some come into your life for a reason.

If everything was fine and things didn’t workout, just remind yourself that it is their loss and not yours coz you are what you are. Perfection isn’t found in anyone. It is a connection people look for in any relationship.

Anyhow as the Parsi year comes to an end and the new year is just around the corner. I would like to wish each and everyone a very happy new year in advance.

Happiness and prosperity to all.

Love yourself coz You are your best friend! You come alone into this world and you die alone. It is only your soul that is yours! Hang on to it tight and don’t let the negativity of this world get too deep! Peace out.