Well emotions can be very tricky. They can really let you have the upper handle if someone has feelings for you and sometimes push you off the cliff if you have them for someone. Having said that, it doesn’t mean it has to go the rocky way only, but; if anything goes into extreme it does tend to get a little weird.
Go with the flow!
Isn’t this the phrase we often tell ourselves when we start overthinking and speculating everything we do when we want to be at our best behaviours. We never keep telling ourselves this over and over again when we need to freak out or hit the panic button. But this needs to be done!
Does this really happen? If you want someone to like you, are you truly yourself from the beginning? I guess most of are, but is it really how we portray ourselves? We try to be at our best behaviour. We try to make an impression that the person we want to impress gets impressed. We do need to be ourselves. Remind yourself over and over again!
Now, there is nothing wrong in impressing the person we like, BUT in life as everything goes, everything needs a balance, we can’t always keep doing what we do and then think why is this not working? Don’t overdo anything that will make the other person or yourself run for the hills.
Balance is the key!
Now this is quite a tricky solution. Everyone thinks it’s super easy but it isn’t…Going into extremes is a lot easier. Having a balance is quite the roller coaster ride. Maintaining a balance is something of an art which needs to be learnt. Most people NEVER get it. BUT the key to anything in life is to keep trying and to strive to attain it.
Let the person be a part of your life and don’t make the person your life!
When we’re into someone, even if it’s a family member, we tend to make them our life’s project. I think that is where we go tumbling down the hill.
Everyone needs space and time to do their own thing.
Too much of anything, as said earlier- extreme, isn’t the right thing.
Space is so important & as they say-
Time and distance can make or break just about anything!
Life has so many facets and everyone of them need to be explored, we can’t let a few emotions get the better of us.
If you feel you’ve been slipping, well wipe that floor clean and get your act straight.
Try something that interests you and gets you back into living your life.
We have to try and not let our emotions get the better of us, emotions can make or break us, it is upto us to realise how to handle them and mould them in such a way to make us the person we truly are!
Strong, independent and we can pull through anything we put your mind and hearts into!